She was a cursed and hideous creature and if men looked upon her face they were turned to stone.
‘I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. ‘Your beautiful bride’s face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to “just hurry up and get it over with”.’ ‘So […] realize that if you look on your wife’s face when she is displaying a sinful attitude toward sex it will kill your sexual pleasure and may actually make it much more difficult for you to achieve the physical connection and release that you need.
‘Sometimes we have to work around the sinful behavior of our wives and this will be one of those times.’ It’s lucky that ‘most men love their wives’, then. Just to be clear, Solomon has already said he believes there is ‘no such thing as marital rape.’ In a blog post earlier this year he said that if a wife wants to request a break from sex – for a short period, of course – the request ‘must be done humbly and respectfully, and always with the attitude in mind that her body does belong to her husband.’ In his post ‘8 steps to confronting your wife’s refusal’, he wrote: ‘If your wife says “NO” and slaps your hand away that is a disrespectful and unloving response by your wife to your sexual initiation and there is no sin in you trying to initiate sex with your wife.’ Good grief. The website hosting this garbage comes with the tagline ‘Peace comes through living the way our creator designed us to’.
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A Christian website has told men not to look at their wives’ faces during sex if she isn’t enjoying it – and ‘not to tolerate refusal’.
Larry Solomon’s post on Biblical Gender Roles.com, titled ‘How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife’, features some of the most appalling ‘sex tips’ ever.
It claims a woman who isn’t keen to satisfy her husband should ‘fake it until she makes it’ because if she doesn’t he might give into ‘temptation’.
For the greater good, Solomon adds a husband should focus on his wife’s body during sex and to concentrate ‘100% on the physical side’.
Here are his top tips for husbands in all their revolting glory – Bible excerpts not included.
Larry writes: ‘You […] need to realize that whether your wife knows it or not she needs to have sex too.