HIV and AIDS has been ignored by black churches since the 1980s.
And you just hate it when all the great men seem to already be married, or…… Now hidden wives or fiancées are quite easy to spot or hear about but the same cannot be said about a closet homosexual.
Down low brothas do not have a label on their forehead saying “I’m gay! Most times, they choose to live their lives, hiding behind fake relationships with women that have completely no idea they are gay.
They also forget they are hurting the women they date, as they tend to forget there is no store where a woman can go and buy back the lost time she spent with him.
Some of them are willing to come clean at some point in their lives, but by then, it will likely be too late for remorse and regrets.
(Just imagine getting married to an undercover gay man who chooses to come clean after your second child is born! If you notice a lot of male friends you never heard of on his Facebook list, it’s a big chance your boyfriend might be gay.
) So before you jump into the wagon with your eyes closed, here are a few signs to be on the look for: That is, male strangers. Sure, pink is the new black, or it used to be, and he’s still not over it.
No straight guy will ever add a male stranger to his list. He’s such a modern guy you tend to ignore his fashion magazines sitting on the coffee table.
But when you notice he dresses kinda funny, or not manly enough, you could be in for a big surprise. Most gay men can be spotted miles away if you have the nose for them.
The way they act, move their hands, pass their hands through their hair or even bat their eyelashes are probably not the most manly gestures you’ve ever seen.