Grab a piece of paper, and write down some words associated with your occupation, some of your hobbies, and some adjectives or verbs you think sound interesting.
After all, an uncreative, slapped together username like “John123” subconsciously tells her you don’t take online dating seriously, you’re unimaginative, and you’re such a slug you can’t be bothered to spend a few minutes trying to impress the online dating multitudes (and specifically, her.)Don’t be that guy.
When choosing a username, avoid sounding desperate, like Lifetime Love4U, fit4another, or lookin2committ.
No woman surfs Ok Cupid hoping to find a guy so weak and depressed he needs therapy. You also don’t want to sound like all you think of is sex – Fantasy Maker22, Squeegie_Taco (that just sounds wrong) or anything with the numbers “69” in it.
If a 7th grade boy would find it amusing, that’s a clue not to use it.
Along those same lines, don’t pick a name that sounds gross, icky, or just plain unappealing , like these guys did: Mr_Sluggo (he hates salty food! ), IDon’t Have Ebola (don’t link your profile with disease in her mind) or Primate1967 (who wants to date a monkey? File this under obvious, but a brief glance through my most recent Ok Cupid matches made me realize I have to point it out: stay away from violent words when picking a name.
Online dating is scary enough for a woman, don’t creep her out before you’ve even messaged her. The name you choose should look like you put some actual thought into it.Nothing about a random string of numbers and letters, like “DR42785”, communicates that you have brains and creativity to spare.Neither do names like “Garys User Name” and “The Seattle One”. You want a username that inspires, informs, and intrigues her. Don’t worry, it’s not hard to do, and should only take you a few minutes.You know the old saying about first impressions, and how you only get one chance to make them? When you’re logged onto Match, furtively scrolling through hundreds of girls’ profiles, you probably don’t spend a lot of time forming that first opinion.In fact, data shows both men and women will form an impression within one tenth of a second of glancing at a stranger’s face in a photograph.You can have the sexiest, most appealing dating photo in the world, but tacking a horrible username on it has roughly the same effect as that iceberg had on the Titanic.